Abstract:
This present study was designed to compare the similarities and differences between
fathers and mothers in terms of their parenting attitudes. This study also determined the
impact of having a child with cerebral palsy and how this might influence parenting
attitudes. In addition, the initial reactions, adjustment and coping mechanisms of both
parents were also explored. Thirty fathers and thirty mothers, aged 24-50 who have children
with cerebral palsy aged 1-17 years old, participated in the survey that measured their
parenting attitudes and the impact of having a child with cerebral palsy in terms of spiritual,
psychological, economic and family impact. In-depth interviews were also conducted on
five fathers and five mothers, in order to gain more comprehensive information on parenting
attitudes.
Results showed that in parenting attitudes, both have the same dominant attitude
which is affection and closeness with the child. However, they differ in that mothers
appeared to be more competent in taking care of the child as mothers have been the primary
caregiver while fathers have been the financial supporter of the family. When it comes to the
impact of having the child, both have been affected greatly in terms of their spirituality and changes in family structure. As to the relationship of impact to parenting attitudes, it was found out that for mothers, impact has a significant influence on parenting attitudes while on fathers impact has no direct influence on their attitudes. On their initial reactions, mothers have been more emotional upon learning the condition of the child while fathers are more stable. On their coping mechanism, fathers tend to use external coping strategies while
mothers use internal coping strategies. It is recommended that a more extensive exploration of the study be implemented in order to gain more substantial information regarding the parenting attitudes of mothers and fathers with cerebral palsied children.
