Abstract:
In this study, the researcher described the physiological and
psychological effects of marital conflict and separation to teenagers. The
behavior and attitudes exhibited by the subjects during and after the conflict
and separation were explored as well. In addition, the financial stability,
social life, academic performance and familial and marital outlook of the
subjects after the parental upheaval were given utmost attention.
Differences among the adjustment of males and females were also be taken
in account. The study included 42 Filipino teenagers, (21 males and 21
females) aged 13 to 20 years old residing mostly in Luzon and Visayas.
This descriptive study utilized qualitative and quantitative measures in
gathering the information. Questionnaires were given to the respondents
who were sampled using the purposive and snowballing methods. The mean
rating of the respondents were used to analyze the data. Qualitative
responses were looked into to see if there are emerging trends in the answers
of the respondents. Results for the males and females were then separated
for further examination.
From the data gathered, it can be seen that the effects of parental
fights and separation are most pronounced in familial and marital
adjustment and outlook, financial stability and parent-child relationships of
the respondents. Most of the participants think that parents should stay
together for the children’s sake. Males are still optimistic about marriage
more than the females. In addition, they are more assertive in the provision
of counseling to children from broken homes and their parents. Financial
problems ensued as a result of marital separation. Female respondents
suggest that parents share the financial responsibility. Father-daughter
relationships were adversely affected by the domestic upheaval. Majority of
the female participants took their mother’s side. Interestingly, respondents
generally exhibited “productive” coping mechanisms. They concentrated on
their studies and honed their talents. Meaningful conversations with their
peer group and intimate partners helped them cope as well. Prayers, too,
became useful in their adjustment process.
